So I like this smart girl, except shes book smart. She doesnt really know about current events and stuff. Should I read newspapers to be more interesting to her? What types of books will benefit me with dating a smart girl? We're both 20 years old.|||to be interesting, you need to be different. to be different, you need to do things that a lot of guys do not do and do not do things that a lot of guys do. get it?
here's what you need to do:
- tease her playfully but not insultingly (most guys put girls on pedestal which is wrong, especially for a very beautiful woman. i bet a beautiful woman gets complimented all the time. if you do it, you're just one of those generic guys.)
- make friends with her friends (in order for you to get her, you need her friends' approval)
- be interesting (it doesn't mean you need to talk about nerdy stuff. you can try cold reading which you can learn by googling it. another interesting topics are psychological tests which are series of questions that leads you into knowing her traits. after all, everyone's favorite topic is themselves. learn lots of interesting things like crazy stunts, magic tricks, etc but do not come across as an entertainer.)
- your body language speaks louder than words. in order for you to look confident, you need to lean back when your seating and your hands should be accessible. when you approach her, do not go direct. instead, your body, except your face, shouldn't be facing her. don't lean in to her. it will come across as if you want something from her. if she can't hear you, say it louder instead of leaning in. remember, confidence attracts a girl.
- be yourself. people get this wrong sometimes. in order to be yourself, you need to get to know yourself first. look for your strengths and weaknesses. hide your weaknesses such as your bad habits and manners. if you're showering while you're talking, force yourself to avoid it. if you're geeky, hide it. deliver your knowledge in a very good way, not loser-ish. if you stutter, speak slowly.|||Just be yourself (which is hopefully nice and easy to talk to, funny, etc). If there's something you see her reading/doing that you're familiar with say something like "Oh, you like that too?" Or if it's not something you're familiar with ask something like "Oh I've heard about that [book, movie, whatever], is it good?" I would love it if someone came up to me like that. Just don't be a creep about it. Be casual and keep the conversation light.
By the way, you don't have to be a nerd to date a nerd. She won't like it if you're faking intelligence either.|||In order to date or attract a smart girl, you don't have to smart yourself or act smart to impress her. In fact if you act smart just to impress her she will see that as trying too hard on your part and she won't like it. Girls don't like guys that are trying too hard to be something they are not or act in a way that is not theirs.
If you want to attract a girl you must first approach her. Introduce yourself to her. And than ask her out.
With the approach itself you will start the attraction process because if you approach her, it shows her that you are confident, that you know what you want and that you go after what you want.
Girls really like that in guys and that's mainly what they find attractive.
Anyway if you want to know more about attracting, approaching and seducing girls check out the source page below.|||I would say lay off the current events, if she doesn't know them she's not interested in them. I would say read similar novels, but you can't go wrong with classics, (http://www.waldsfe.org/highschool/HAHS/h鈥?/a>|||http://hi.baidu.com/%C1%D2%BB%F0%CE%C6%D鈥?/a>
There's a story that reminds me exactly of your situation :3 Just sayin|||I would say lay off the current events,|||Just be yourself. If she doesn't like you for you, then it's not worth it.|||have a talk with mature people who could help you know what's around.
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